|the amazing source|
When I look at this picture I feel less alone. Maybe because it looks something like hope.
I had been doing fine in life. I had been getting along as best I could. Then I went and did something stupid like go wandering in the facebook woods alone, unprepared for what I would stumble upon. I stalked John and found something surprising and confusing.
His profile had disappeared for a while - it's not like I did a weekly check or anything, but last time I did, he wasn't there. Last night however - he was back. He has a new relationship - which he actually declared on his page - she is a perfectly ordinary looking woman - with a baby. There were photos of him and her (with the little him) plastered all over, and all I could think was that he looked happy - really, honestly happy. It seems like finally he has the instant family he said he always wanted. I'm not sure why it shook me so much - but I was left reeling. One moment I'm finishing a late night cup of tea, and the next I'm discovering things that required much more emotional intelligence than I was able to muster on a Sunday evening. What the hell happened while I was drinking my cup of tea?
I'm not sure why I've reacted this way. Perhaps I'm jealous, or disappointed that it wasn't me who put that joyful twinkle back in his eye. Or maybe it's just that I wish I had the pictures to prove I'd moved forward. Truthfully - she looks like the kind of girl I would get along with, be friends with even. Further truths be known, I'm almost relieved to find he's no longer with the other one - the bad apple.
Anyway, I guess these are just the kind of flips and dives that life takes, even when you think it's moving predictably straight. It's a reminder, not to be complacent.